Relationship nature based on Tithis. Tithi shows us nature, strengths, weaknesses and our ability to relate to humans and dieties. It not only says about us but also how we form our relationships. It's the limb of the panchang controlled by water and thus reflects our emotions, our sensitivity and the way we respect other's boundaries. Tithi is ruled by the element apas (water) and Venus. The strength and placement of Venus and Moon will add more to the final effect on relationships. For e.g we will be out of balance and unhappy if Venus is in Virgo or Moon is in Scorpio, making us possesive and bitter. Moon causes tides not just on our planet but also in our bodies, with constantly changing reflection bringing different moods, emotions and experiences. So tithis based on our lunar phases help us understand how we are giving and receiving in relationships. Tithis are classified as per panchabhutas : Nanda - Happiness (dharma) (1, 6, 11) Agni (fire) Tithis : Pratipada, Shasti and Ekadashi. Kalas : Daya(compassion), rati(passion) and jyotsna(halo) This tithi helps us to obtain happiness, pleasures, social encounters, creativity, art and entertainment. This being fire element always carries a danger of overindulgence and need to control anger and desires. People born in this tithis, seek the feeling of energy, passion, vitality, focus, goal orientism, action orientism in their partners and relations and thus their own career goal fulfillment matters a lot for their emotional states. So if a person 10th is afflicted in addition to being born in nanda tithi, it will affect him emotionally a lot which will take a toll on his relationships. People born in this tithi seek self gratification for extreme passion, too fiery lacking emotional sensitivity, have short term relationships, are hard to understand, and not easy to love and handle. They should pray to Agni, kartikeya, Vishwadeva for this 1st, 6th and 11th tithi respectively. Bhadra - Lucky (Artha) (2, 7, 12) Prithvi (Earth) Tithis : Dwitiya, Saptami, Dwadashi Kalas : Dhairya( Patience), Dhriti( Courage) and shree( opulence) This tithi supports us in business, success and prosperity, artha goals, accumulation and stability. This being earth element shows danger of pride or overemphasis on body and appearance. People born in this tithi seek emotional nurturing, attention from their partners and longevity, sustainability and stability in relationships. Can be emotionally needy, attached to own or partners outer appearances. An afflicted 12H for a bhadra tithi born will mean unstable energies that will make them lose relationships and let go attachments that they may not be ready to lose. Must have a strong Mercury in addition to Venus. Fondness of fragrances and aromatherapy. Security, wealth and happiness is very important so a person will not be happy in a relationship if he is not having enough wealth and comforts. Should balance muladhara chakra. Jaya - Victorious ( Kama) (3, 8, 13) Akash( ether) Tithis : Tritiya, Ashtami and Trayodashi Kalas : pusha( nourishment), Shashini ( swiftness) and Priti (Love) This tithi helps in overcoming obstacles, success in competitions, exams and debates, helping fulifllment of desires or kama goals. This being akash tatwa, deals with danger of losing one's boundaries too much. Seek protection of relationships. This tithi rules throat chakra so need to be careful of words and company. Need to have a partner who loves socializing and energy exchange since they themselves love doing the same. If natal 11H is affilicted they will suffer emotionally. Rikta - Empty (Moksha) (4, 9, 14) Apas (Water) Tithis : Chaturthi, Navami and Chaturdashi. This tithi is connected to moksha/liberation and helps in purification, destruction, demolition, cleaning and removing negativity. Rikta is watery connected to water like Moon itself and thus one can be too focused on oneself lacking understanding and respect towards other people's emotions, limitations and boundaries. Infact often withhold or suppress emotions and are unable to express emotions with a danger of emotional outbursts. They are loyal and committed to one partner for a very long time and feel disturbed when a relation abruptly ends. They are extremely sensitive and vulnerable deep inside with a reserved exterior so can get hurt easily. Rikta means empty, unsupported and these tithis have a negative and aggressive quality to them, and thus relationships suffer. They seek emotional support and gratification for emotional needs and insecurities. If ascendant is afflicted making the personality more vulnerable and weak, they will suffer more. The quality of their diet, will deeply affect their consciousness as water element stands for sense of taste and thus avoiding non vegetarian, contaminated or spoiled food will help. Must have a strong unafflicted Venus and Moon to not complicate relationships further. Should pray to Ganapati, Durga and Shiva for these 4th, 9th and 14th tithi respectively. Poorna - (5, 10, 15/30) (Vayu) Tithi : Panchami, Dashami and Poornima/Amavasya. Kalas : Pushti( Comfort), Kanti( Beauty) and purna( fullness) This tithi helps us for completing things, harvesting and education. Being connected to air, one can be too indecisive, ungrounded, ignorant of good advices to be stuck in own drama lacking action to move forward. Purna tithis exactly placed either on gandanta or Mars nakshatras thus boundaries are very important. They seek sensitivity and respect from others in relationships especially they dont like boundaries crossed or broken in anyway. They like going slow in any relationship and not being rushed. Due to diplomatic qualities of air element (vayu), inner feeling of freedom and independence is extremely important for them and they particularly get disturbed if their partners say something inappropriate publically to them amidst a large group. Since 9H rules dharma, morals, if natal 9H is afflicted, natives will feel more emotionally disturbed. Being born in a certain tithi in addition to the strength of our Venus, Moon will determine the quality of our relationships. Simply by looking at tithi we can check a person's inherent behavior and expectation in relationships and this can help in improving our lives. Same tithi folks get along however for e.g rikta and nanda will not be compatible due to fire and water. Relationships are not what they look to outsiders, only partners know the deficiencies and loop holes of one another.( very evident while couple synastry matching). Here we have seen just one aspect of tithi panchabhutas here w.r.t relationships.There is an ocean to learn just on the depths and mysteries of panchanga. It's amazing how tithi alone can be studied w.r.t our chakras, nadis, gunas, shaktis, deities, nakshatras, signs, body healing points, sounds, kalas, consciousness, spiritual readiness and outlook in life. Still a long way to go exploring the knowlegde of our sages and senior astrologers which has helped me in understanding relationships of clients and my own. Pic credit :Tomas Alen Kopera Repost nov 2019 #vedicexperience #relationships #relationshipreading #knowyourtithi #tithibehavior #loveandrelationships #tithi #relationshipexpectations #panchang #tithis #vedicastrology #jyotish